I Actually Like Moving. (Yes, Really.)
- Wendy Dahl
- Apr 21, 2021
- 4 min read
Before you close this tab - hear me out.

I have discovered that saying "I like moving" is the fastest way to stop any conversation dead in its tracks.
But I mean it.
As a kid, I treated our five-bedroom house like a personal rotation system. I cycled through three of those bedrooms over the years - never the master, obviously - and I'm fairly certain I would have claimed a fourth if we hadn't sold the house and moved to a different state first. New room, new setup, new energy. I was hooked early.
Now, I get that I am in the minority here.
For most people, the word "moving" lands somewhere between "root canal" and "filing taxes." The excitement of a new adventure is real - for about forty-eight hours - and then the reality of packing shows up and the whole thing starts to feel like a punishment.
Your heart rate just ticked up a little reading that, didn't it?
Deep breath.
Moving doesn't have to be chaos. It can actually be one of the best opportunities you'll ever have to hit the reset button on your space and your life. With a little planning, a little grace, and maybe a little help - it can even be good.
Or at least significantly less awful. I'll take it.
Moving Is More Than a Change of Address
Before we get into the to-do lists, let's talk about how you're thinking about this move - because that matters more than the packing tape.
Moving isn't just a logistical event. It's an invitation.
You get to decide - deliberately, intentionally - what comes with you into this next chapter. What deserves space in your new home. What has actually earned a spot in your life going forward. And what has just been... riding along out of habit.
That mental shift? From "ugh, I have to deal with all this stuff" to "I get to choose what comes with me" - that's where moving goes from overwhelming to genuinely exciting.
It's not stressful. It's actually kind of powerful.
Okay. Now the logistics.
4 Things That Make Moving So Much Better
1. Plan Ahead - Like, Now
Start a moving notebook the moment you know a move is coming. Digital or handwritten, whatever works for you ... just start it immediately. There are fantastic moving checklists out there (Pinterest alone has approximately one million of them), so find one that fits your style and actually use it.
A few things I always add to mine if they aren't already included:
A running list of things I know I'll need in the new space as they occur to me
Measurements of the new place so nothing gets moved that won't fit (as much as I love eyeballing things, the tape measure saves everyone's back)
A "return to people" list - because moves have a way of surfacing things you borrowed three years ago
Getting started early is everything. There are tasks you can knock out immediately and tasks that can wait - but knowing the difference means you're never scrambling.
2. Take Inventory and Declutter Ruthlessly
This is the part where I get genuinely excited.
A move is the single best decluttering opportunity you will ever have, because the math is undeniable: less to keep = less to pack = less to unpack. Simple. Beautiful. True.
Go room by room with:
A garbage bag for toss
A box for donations
A bag for items to return to people
Facebook Marketplace queued up for anything worth selling
Use this moment to honestly evaluate what you actually want in your life going forward. Not what you've been dragging from address to address out of habit - what you want. Your new space deserves intentional choices, not default ones.
3. Schedule Everything (Including Help)
Block time off work. Put moving tasks on the calendar like actual appointments. Ask people for help early - before their weekends fill up.
And be honest with yourself about your social calendar during this season. Over-committing on top of a move is a fast track to a meltdown. Protect your bandwidth.
4. Give Yourself a Healthy Mindset Buffer
Here's the truth nobody puts on the moving checklist: there is always a moment of chaos before order arrives. Always. That moment of standing in a sea of boxes thinking "what have I done" is completely normal and does not mean anything is wrong.
When that moment hits ... and it will ... step away. Take a walk. Call a friend. Make a cup of coffee and look at your lists. Do whatever resets you.
This is your opportunity. A fresh start. A chance to set up your space - and your life - exactly the way you want it.
Or Maybe You Just Need a Moving Personal Trainer
Not everyone wants to manage a move solo, and honestly? That's the smart call.
Think of me as your personal trainer for the move - someone who shows up, keeps the momentum going, helps you make the calls you've been putting off, and makes sure the whole process actually moves forward instead of stalling out in a pile of bubble wrap.
If you're in Blaine, Bellingham, Birch Bay, Lynden, Semiahmoo, or anywhere in Whatcom County, I'd love to help you make this move one of the best things you've done for yourself.
✨ Less stuff to move means less stress on move day.
✨ A plan means fewer panic moments.
✨ And having someone in your corner makes the whole thing feel possible.
Let's make your move a fresh start, not a fresh nightmare.
Sugar & Space is a professional organizing service based in Blaine, WA, proudly serving Whatcom County and surrounding communities. Whether you're moving across town or into your next chapter — let's make it a good one.
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